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Particular Moments for a Completely satisfied New Yr, and Completely satisfied Birthday Maggie!!!

I really like loads about this time of yr, from vacation lights to the sweetness of family and friends. To not point out the cookies. And the cake. Simply saying.

One thing I’ve accomplished for many years this time of yr is to mirror on the previous yr and envision what I’d like the following yr to incorporate. Not New Yr’s Resolutions per se, however ideas and intentions in regards to the time to return. (See, for instance, final yr’s January publish.) However this yr I discover my imaginative and prescient of the yr to return as a giant, clean void. I do know I wish to maintain engaged on my novel (extra on that subsequent publish). However aside from that? I discover myself at a loss. Predictions of what may or won’t be doable really feel absurd. Absolutely I’m not the one one susceptible to being swept away by the tsunami of stories about X, Y or Z, most of it scary or unhappy. Maybe that’s the reason I’m unable to provide you with something past a kind of foolish posters of a kitten clutching to the highest of a door, with the letters “Cling in There!” written beneath.

And but, there may be magnificence in a void of expectations. What I’m left with is an appreciation of particular moments: Skip’s radiant face when it lastly snowed final week and he spun and leapt in it, a whirling dervish of pleasure. Maggie’s silky cheek resting underneath my hand each evening as I slowly stroke it, each of us bathed in oxytocin. Jim’s heat hand in mine as we stroll towards the night sundown, the sky a batik portray of coral and pink and turquoise.

It’s moments like these which are what make us actually completely happy. Not accomplishments or checked off objects on a To Do checklist. They’re what we keep in mind finest when lose them, what retains us going once we want psychological oxygen. Nancy Bell, seamstress, musician, farmer, and author says it properly:

“I notice, as I gaze down and again from my neighbor’s window, that what I keep in mind most are these spherical little moments—moments the place the total Sweetness of life bore down on me and I had the sense and Grace to really feel or style it absolutely.  These moments had little or no to do with something linear, with lists, with speeding, or bold targets and rushing deadlines (most of which handed me by).  Lots of issues I believed I needed to do received supplanted by surprises I may by no means have imagined.”

I discover myself savoring particular moments increasingly more, residing extra within the current and fewer sooner or later, as it’s so straightforward to do. My age, little question, has one thing to do with that, however I feel the pandemic, environmental disaster and present political stir fry is enjoying a giant position. Jim and I’ve plans for the longer term that will or might not occur, I’m writing a guide that will or might not see the sunshine of day, and who is aware of how lengthy we may have every of our treasured animals, family and friends members? And who may very well be higher at serving to us to remain within the current than our canines, our cats, or horses or ferrets? This have to be partially why we love them a lot, for his or her meditative capacity to be Proper Right here, Proper Now.

Be a part of me then, if you’ll, in a celebration of these particular moments that we’ll always remember. Listed below are a couple of of mine, some animal associated, some not:

Mendacity on my again on a sailboat within the Caribbean, skimming throughout the azure blue seas whereas listening to Put on Your Love Like Heaven. This occurred over fifty years in the past, and I can nonetheless name up the texture of the breeze, the mild roll of the boat and the sweetness of Donovan’s voice anytime I like.


Watching a younger Arabian stallion actually blush after tripping himself and falling in an ignoble heap whereas attempting to impress a bunch of mares in warmth. I used to be sixteen when this occurred, and I keep in mind it as if it was yesterday.

    That is how I feel he imagined himself.

Final evening, when it was one diploma above zero (Fahrenheit), and I had put Maggie again inside as a result of I used to be apprehensive about frostbite on her paws, and Skip, thrilled with the snow and the chilly, tried to interact me in the identical type of play he does with Maggie, eyes shining like stars, an enormous grin on his face, his physique all curvy and sideways and aching to run.

                 Skip final yr powering by means of the snow

The second final spring when Maggie and I accomplished the shed on the Nippersink Sheepdog Trial, after she had brilliantly dealt with a set of flighty sheep on a tough course, and she or he knew she’d accomplished fantastically, and was so exuberantly and clearly proud and completely happy that I’ll have her joyful, ecstatic face in my thoughts till the day that I die.

The day that Jim first got here to the farm, and my ram, Beavis, put his head down and charged towards Jim, who stood nonetheless, made a fist and punched the 300 pound animal on the nostril. I nonetheless swoon eager about it.

And naturally, all moments aren’t so candy. Who can neglect that second at 3 AM whenever you woke as much as the sound of your canine about to retch in your mattress. Such a novel sound, proper? However ah, this implies your canine is alive, and with you and in it’s personal stomach-churning means, a particular second certainly.

Your flip, lest I start to go down a wierd highway of weird and gross moments referring to lambing (i.e, what if appears like for the primary time to place your arm inside a ewe to really feel for a lamb), and also you all flip away in disgust.

MEANWHILE, again on the farm: Yeah, it’s chilly. I’ve by no means seen earlier than I took this {photograph} how the crimson fluid descends nearer and nearer to the canine’s butt because it will get colder. To not point out the location of the crimson bulb. Hey, you gotta recognize pleasure and foolishness the place you discover it.

Right here’s the desk set final week for our New Yr’s feast with pricey mates David and Julie:

Fried rooster, candy potato fries, chopped salad, and tomato pudding (thanks D & J!) have been on the menu. This Swedish Almond Cake (from NYT journal) topped off our meal. It’s one in every of my absolute favourite deserts now–you may make it the day earlier than, it retains endlessly and is simply plain enjoyable to make. (These are dried roses on the highest.)

There’s one thing candy in regards to the reflection of our Christmas tree within the window, with the snowy barn and yard within the background:

However I’m burying the lead right here: It’s Maggie ninth birthday!!! Oh my my my, I can barely imagine it. If her properly you possibly can inform she’s slowed down–saving vitality on a giant outrun, for instance–however in any other case you’d by no means comprehend it. She’s my Gal Gadot, my temper ring, my radiant face of pleasure and love, and my softest, cuddliest sofa buddy ever. I’m over the moon in love along with her, have been because the day she got here. Right here she is along with her birthday current. I really like how on the finish she seems to be at me like “Why are you looking at me in that bizarre means?”

And so, to you pricey reader: Inform us a few particular second or two, one that you simply’ll at all times keep in mind, and one which we’ll get all heat and gooey studying about. Or spit out our tea laughing.

And to all of you, might this New Yr carry it’s personal particular moments of pleasure and love and ridiculousness, all to remind us what a wild experience this factor referred to as life actually is.

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